As the economy wreaks havoc on many families' summer vacations, it doesn't hurt to have a backup plan. And with a little creativity staying home can be almost as fun as going somewhere.
OK, I said almost. For those whose idea of the best vacation involves staying at a posh resort with lots of amusement rides and splashing pools for the children and ample staff to tend to the every whim of the adults, this isn't going to be much help.
But for those whose vacation was to be some time spent together in the natural setting of a national park or forest, there is a way to replicate some of that fun without venturing far from home by using the old standby: The back yard camp out.
I'm not talking about merely setting up a tent for the kids and going inside at 10 p.m. when the novelty wears off to watch the latest Netflix installment. I mean camping out for real -- all night, under the stars, weather be damned.
Many of us spend quite a lot of money, time and sweat making our yards places to enjoy, then become so busy we fail to have time to enjoy them. A back yard camp out provides such an opportunity. But it's an all-or-nothing proposition.
First, set the ground rules: No electronic anything. No runs into the house except to use the bathroom. (You can even hide the remote controls and unplug the television, computers, etc., to make the point.) No last minute rescues by friends who call or text with a better offer. This is your family vacation. For purposes you are "out of town" for the duration.
Set up the entire camp as you would if you had gone to the campground of your choosing: tents, chairs, stove, cooking gear, coolers, etc. If camp coffee is what you would have had away from home, then no sneaking out to Starbucks before everyone is awake or creeping into the kitchen to make it there. Adults have to follow the rules too.
One activity to help seal the idea that you've "gone" somewhere is to engage in a group activity to create something to use for the duration of camp. Hit the local craft stores and pick up some plain white canvas baseball camps or bucket hats and let each person use colorful permanent markers to decorate his or her hat. You can also do this with plain-color bandannas.
Or create nature journals for everyone to use on the "trip." Take a few sheets of white paper from your printer -- three for each book ought to be enough -- and have pieces of card stock in various colors for people to use as covers. Fold three sheets of white paper the short way and fold a sheet of card stock over them, creating a booklet. Staple the inside along the fold or punch holes along the fold-- one near the top and one hear the bottom -- and tie with twine.
Then do a nature scavenger hunt. Divide into two teams and set the parameters: Front and back yards, the entire block, a one-block radius, etc. Then give each team a notebook (and a digital camera, if possible) and assign each team to bring back, or record the existence of, five items related to specific topic. Simple field guides might also be helpful.
For example, one team may have to find find pieces of evidence that mean birds live in the area. This can mean spotting actual birds (but they must be identified) or simply seeing nests, droppings or hearing their calls (describe the calls on paper the best that you can). Another team could be assigned to find five different insects or evidence of their existence. Think roadside wildflowers, trees or mammals.
The end of the game involves meeting back at camp at an appointed time and showing what you found. Sometimes the stories of how someone found a particular item can be quite hilarious ("The bird pooped on Mr. Lambert's car - right after he washed it!") Make sure there is a prize for the team who gets everything on the list and arrives back first -- like a special pin or sticker for their camp hats, bandannas or journals. The photos can be printed later and pasted inside the journals.
Families who are good at this sort of thing might opt for more serious topics such as noxious roadside weeds, litter or ways in which the neighborhood could conserve water or energy. For these families, the end of the game could involve planning a service project you could do as a group when you "get home" from your vacation.
If fishing or long hikes through the woods figured prominently in your plans, why not hit a local trail, nature center, park or the local lake, stream or even fishing farm instead? Those of us who have grown used to traveling for such activities can ignore the opportunities available closer to home. As usual, record the outing in your journals with photos, written accounts or by drawing pictures or gluing bits of nature onto the pages.
Of course, this isn't going to feel like that trip to Yellowstone or Yosemite. But it can feel like a vacation, if the focus is on each other and nature, rather than the restaurants, games and other trappings of your typical daily routines.